Life is all about balance, and let me tell you, I’ve learned that the hard way. I used to think kindness meant always saying yes, that trust should be given freely, and that humility meant putting myself last. But experience has taught me otherwise.

I’ve had to learn that being kind doesn’t mean being a doormat. That trust is a gift, not a guarantee. That I can be grateful for where I am while still striving to grow. And most importantly, that humility doesn’t mean letting people take me for granted.

It’s a fine line, this balancing act of life. But with time, I’ve realised that protecting my energy isn’t selfish – it’s necessary. Growth and boundaries can coexist with kindness and trust. And standing up for yourself doesn’t make you ungrateful – it makes you strong.

So here’s to balance. To learning. To becoming wiser without becoming hardened. And to knowing that we deserve the same love and care we so freely give to others.